Ramuan ajaib abc…xyz

Menurut banyak pakar, manusia sukses dan bahagia tidak hanya dikarenakan tingginya kecerdasan otak seseorang yang diukur dari IQ (Intelligence Quotient) saja, tetapi terlebih ditunjang oleh kematangan pribadinya mengelola emosi yang ditera dengan tingginya EQ(Emotional Intelligence).

Pakar EQ bernama Prof. K. J. Gergen, PhD dalam e-books bertiras “The Saturated Self : Dilemmas of Identity in Contemporary Life” memberikan saran-saran, bagaimana kita menemukan dan memupuk harga diri dengan “ramuan ajaib” pembentuk kepribadian yang diberi “merk” ALFABET KEBERHASILAN PRIBADI. Marilah kita bersama-sama menikmari ramuan ajaib ini seteguk demi sereguk =D

A : Accept. Terimalah diri Anda sebagaimana adaya.

B : Believe. Percayalah terhadap kemampuan Anda untuk meraih apa yang Anda inginkan dalam hidup.

C : Care. Pedulilah pada kemampuan Anda dalam meraih apa yang Anda inginkan dalam hidup.

D : Direct. Arahkan pikiran pada hal-hal positif yang meningkatkan kepercayaan diri.

E : Earn. Terimalah penghargaan yang diberi orang lain dengan tetap berusaha menjadi yang terbaik.

F : Face. Hadapi masalah dengan benar dan yakin.

G : Go. Berangkatlah dari kebenaran.

H : Homework. Pekerjaan rumah adalah langkah penting untuk pengumpulan informasi.

I  : Ignore. Abaikan celaan orang yang menghalangi jalan Anda mencapai tujuan.

J  : Jealously. Rasa iri dapat membuat Anda tidak menghargai kelebihan Anda sendiri.

K : Keep. Terus berusaha walaupun beberapa kali gagal.

L : Learn. Belajar dari kesalahan dan berusaha untuk tidak mengulanginya.

M : Mind. Perhatikan urusan sendiri dan tidak menyebar gosip tentang orang lain.

N : Never. Jangan terlibat skandal seks, obat terlarang dan alkohol.

O : Observe. Amatilah segala hal di sekeliling Anda. Perhatikan, dengarkan dan belajarlah dari orang lain.

P : Patience. Sabar adalah kekuatan tak ternilai yang membuat Anda terus berusaha.

Q : Question. Pertanyaan diperlukan untuk mencari jawaban yang benar dan menambah ilmu.

R : Respect. Hargai diri sendiri dan juga orang lain.

S : Self Confidence, self esteem, self respect. Percaya diri, harga diri, citra diri, penghormatan diri akan membebaskan kita dari saat-saat tegang.

T : Take. Bertanggung jawab pada setiap tindakan Anda.

U : Understand. Pahami bahwa hidup itu naik turun, namun tak ada yang dapat mengalahkan Anda.

V : Value. Nilai diri sendiri dan orang lain, berusahalah melakukan yang terbaik.

W : Work. Bekerja dengan giat, dengan hati, jangan lupa berdoa.

X : X’tra. Usaha lebih keras membawa keberhasilan.

Y : You. Anda dapat membuat sesuatu yang berbeda.

Z : Zero. Usaha nol = hasil nol.

Semoga bermanfaat dan memotivasi =D

you

You did it again
You did hurt my heart
I don’t know how many times
You… I don’t know what to say
You’ve made me so desperately in love
And now you let me down
You said you’d never lie again
You said this time would  be so right
But then I found you were lying there by her side

Reff: 
You.. You turn my whole life so blue
Drowning me so deep,  I just can reach myself again
You.. Successfully tore myheart
Now it’s only pieces
Nothing left but pieces of you
You frustated me with this love
I’ve been trying to understand
You know i’m trying i’m trying
You.. I don’t know what to say
You’ve made me so desperately in love
And now you let me down

when i see you smile

Sometimes I wonder
How I'd ever make it through,
Through this world without having you
I just wouldn't have a clue

'Cause sometimes it seems
Like this world's closing in on me,
And there's no way of breaking free
And then I see you reach for me

Sometimes I wanna give up
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight
And then I see you, baby
And everything's alright,
everything's alright

When I see you smile
I can face the world, oh oh,
you know I can do anything
When I see you smile
I see a ray of light, oh oh,
I see it shining right through the rain
When I see you smile
Oh yeah, baby when I see you smile at me

Baby there's nothing in this world
that could ever do
What a touch of your hand can do
It's like nothing that I ever knew

And when the rain is falling
I don't feel it,
'cause you're here with me now
And one look at you baby
Is all I'll ever need,
you're all I'll ever need

Sometimes I wanna give up
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight
And then I see you baby
And everything's alright,
everything's alright

So right...

someone like you

I heard
That you're settled down
That you
Found a girl
And you're
Married now

I heard
That your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things
I didn't give to you

Old friend
Why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back
Or hide from the light

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."
Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead,
Yeah.

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday
It was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise
Of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead."

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known
How bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Never mind
I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
"Don't forget me," I begged
"I'll remember," you said
"Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead"

Sometimes it lasts in love
But sometimes it hurts instead

one and only

You've been on my mind, I grow fonder every day Lose myself in time just thinking of your face God only knows why it's taken me so long to let my doubts go You're the only one that I want
I don't know why I'm scared, I've been here before Every feeling, every word, I've imagined it all You'll never know if you never try To forget your past and simply be mine
I dare you to let me be your, your one and only Promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms So come on and give me a chance To prove I am the one who can walk that mile Until the end starts
If I've been on your mind, you hang on every word I say Lose yourself in time at the mention of my name Will I ever know how it feels to hold you close And have you tell me whichever road I choose you'll go
I don't know why I'm scared 'cause I've been here before Every feeling, every word, I've imagined it all You'll never know if you never try To forget your past and simply be mine
I dare you to let me be your, your one and only Promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms So come on and give me a chance To prove I am the one who can walk that mile Until the end starts
I know it ain't easy giving up your heart I know it ain't easy giving up your heart
Nobody's perfect (I know it ain't easy giving up your heart) Trust me, I've learned it Nobody's perfect (I know it ain't easy giving up your heart) Trust me, I've learned it
Nobody's perfect (I know it ain't easy giving up your heart) Trust me, I've learned it Nobody's perfect (I know it ain't easy giving up your heart) Trust me I've learned it
So I dare you to let me be your, your one and only I promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms So come on and give me a chance To prove I am the one who can walk that mile Until the end starts
Come on and give me a chance To prove I am the one who can walk that mile Until the end starts

leaving on the jet plane

All my bags are packed

I'm ready to go
I'm standing here outside your door
I hate to wake you up to say goodbye

But the dawn is breaking, it's early morn'
The taxi 's waiting, he's blowing his horn,
Already I'm so lonesome I could die

Chorus:
So kiss me and smile for me
Tell me that you'll wait for me
Hold me like you'll never let me go
I'm leaving on a jetplane,
Don't know when I'll be back again,
Oh babe I'd hate to go
I'd hate to go...

There 're so many times I've let you down
So many times I've played around
But now you know that they don't mean a thing

Every place I go, I'll think of you
Every song I sing, I'll sing for you
When I come back I'll wear your weddingring

So kiss me and smile for me
Tell me that you'll wait for me
Hold me like you'll never let me go

I'm leaving on a jetplane
Don't know when I'll be back again
Oh babe, I hate to go
I hate to go...

Now the time has come to leave you
One more time, let me kiss you
Close your eyes and I'll be on my way

Dream about the days to come
When I won't have to leave alone,
About the times when I don't have to say...:

Chorus:
So kiss me and smile for me
Tell me that you'll wait for me
Hold me like you'll never let me go
I'm leaving on a jetplane,
Don't know when I'll be back again,
Oh babe I'd hate to go
I'd hate to go...

I'm leaving on a jetplane, I'm leaving on a jetplane,
I'm leaving on a jetplane, I', leaving on a jetplane.......

(fade)

i will survive

At first I was afraid

I was petrified

I kept thinking

I could never live without you by my side

But then I spent so many nights

Just thinking how you’d done me wrong

And I grew strong

I learned how to get along

So now you’re back

From outer space

I just walked in to find you here

Without the look upon your face

I should have changed my f-ing lock

I would have made you leave your key

If I’d have known for just one second

You’d be back to bother me

Oh now go,

Walk out the door

Just turn around now

You’re not welcome anymore

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with desire

Did you think I’d crumble

Did you think I’d lay down and die

Oh no, not I

I will survive

As long as I know how to love I know I’ll be alive

I’ve got all my life to live

I’ve got all my love to give

I will survive

I will survive

Yeah, yeah

It took all the strength I had

Just not to fall apart

I’m trying hard to mend the pieces

Of my broken heart

And I spent oh so many nights

Just feeling sorry for myself

I used to cry

But now I hold my head up high

And you see me

With somebody new

I’m not that stupid little person still in love with you

And so you thought you’d just drop by

And you expect me to be free

But now I’m saving all my loving

For someone who’s loving me

Oh now go,

Walk out the door

Just turn around now

You’re not welcome anymore

Weren’t you the one who tried to break me with desire

Did you think I’d crumble

Did you think I’d lay down and die

Oh no, not I

I will survive

As long as I know how to love I know I’ll be alive

I’ve got all my live to live

I’ve got all my love to give

I will survive

I will survive

Yeah, yeah